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There are two ways to deal with failures -

you can engage in self-loathing, or you can leverage your failures to lead you to success.

One must not forget that every success is a result of a chain of failures. Look at your failures from a different perspective and they might actually help you move towards your goal. Expert Larry Shaffer highlights five lessons one can learn from their failures:

⭐️Embrace the fail-fast philosophy. Make mistakes, immediately gain feedback, and rectify them.

⭐️Do not consider failures as setbacks, but as stepping stones to success.

⭐️View failures as a sign that the current strategy is not working and needs a change.

⭐️Consider failures as valuable experiences that you can look back on when you face similar crisis situations.

⭐️Failures keep your humility intact and keep you grounded.

The mind has a powerful way of attracting things that are in harmony with it, good and bad..!!

We should always remember that we are empowered with the Mind power , which is one of the strongest and most useful powers in our  possession. This power, together with our imagination, can create success or failure, happiness or unhappiness, opportunities or obstacles. Our minds have the ability to influence how we interpret and respond to the events and circumstances around us..!!

However, it is important to note that adjusting our mindset does not mean denying or ignoring the challenges and problems that exist in the world. It is about consciously choosing how we perceive and respond to those challenges. By maintaining a balanced perspective, acknowledging difficulties, and actively seeking solutions, we can contribute to positive change and work towards making the world a better place..!!

Great minds have purposes, others have wishes..!!

It's important to note that while external factors and influences play a role in shaping our sense of self, we also have the capacity to consciously shape and redefine our mindset. We have the ability to make choices and take actions that align with our values and aspirations, allowing us to create a more authentic and fulfilling sense of self..!!

Our choices and actions play a significant role in shaping our sense of self and direct us towards the path of success. By consciously aligning our choices and actions with our values and aspirations, we can actively shape our  destination. Self-awareness provides a foundation for intentional self-creation.  By exploring our inner world, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves. Our sense of self is not fixed but can evolve over time as we gain new insights, learn from our mistakes, and pursue personal growth..!!

We may face many defeats in life, but never  should let  ourself be defeated..!!

Linda Poindexter ,a great philosopher has said, “One small crack does not mean that you are broken; it means that you were put to the test and you didn’t fall apart.”

That is indeed true. We know a lot of folks who, when put to the test, tripped and didn’t get back up again, or they decided that if it can’t be perfect they’ll just stop. or, worse yet, some don’t even try. That doesn’t make any sense, when in reality trying is what we’re after..!!

Life isn’t meant to be perfect, we all make mistakes. We all have wounds. By shifting our perspective that our wounds have made us stronger rather than mark us as a weakling. Steve Maraboli is famous for saying, “This life is for loving, sharing, learning, smiling, caring, forgiving, laughing, hugging, helping, dancing, wondering, healing, and even more loving. I choose to live life this way” And I hope we all should remember that..!!